Finding Ourselves in Others

The Power of Community in a New Land

Samantha Goode

There is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the freedom of my mind.

-Virginia Woolf

Moving to a new country is an act of courage. It means stepping into the unknown, leaving behind familiarity, and embracing a world of uncertainty. But amid all the challenges, one thing remains constant: our deep human need to connect, belong and build something meaningful alongside others.

When we arrive in a new land, everything feels different—new streets, customs, faces, and often, a new language. It is easy to feel lost and isolated as if we are navigating this journey alone. But we are not alone. Countless others share our stories—women who, like us, have left behind loved ones, careers, and dreams to start anew in Canada. And within these shared experiences, we can find strength, resilience, and the comfort of knowing that we are not the only ones forging this path.

Community is not just about finding people who speak our language or share our culture. It is about recognizing ourselves in others, even when their backgrounds, traditions, or languages differ. It is about building bridges, not just between people who look like us or sound like us, but with those who, like us, are chasing a better future. Doing so creates a space where we all feel seen, heard, and understood.

As migrant women, we have an incredible opportunity—to shape a new home for ourselves while strengthening the social fabric of this country. The friendships we build, the stories we share, and the support we offer one another can transform the way we experience migration. When we embrace diversity, we expand our world. When we foster connection, we grow stronger. And when we teach our children that no language, no culture, and no barrier is too great to overcome, we empower the next generation to live without fear of differences.

Let’s not walk this journey alone. Let’s build a community where every woman knows she belongs, regardless of where she comes from. Because in the end, our new home is not just the place where we live—it is the people we choose to share it with.

Five Strategies for Making First Connections in a New Environment

Start with a Smile: A warm smile can break barriers even when words are difficult to find. It signals openness and friendliness, making it easier for others to approach you.

Learn Key Phrases: Mastering a few simple greetings and expressions in the local language shows respect and effort and helps to bridge initial communication gaps.

Ask Open-Ended Question: Encourage conversation by asking about others’ experiences, interests, and cultures. People appreciate genuine curiosity and a willingness to learn.

Use Body Language: Gestures, eye contact, and nodding can help convey interest and understanding when words are limited.

Join Community Activities: Participating in local groups, language exchanges, or social events provides natural opportunities to connect with others with similar experiences and goals.

Closing Thought

We are more than just individuals making our way through a foreign land. We are a community of strong, resilient women shaping a new future together. Every handshake, every shared story, and every moment of mutual understanding we create is a step toward a more inclusive and supportive world.

Let’s embrace the beauty of diversity, stand side by side, and build a home within each other. Because no matter where we come from, together, we belong.


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